Aging Parents

Posted on 08/03/2015 at 6:16pm

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Reviewed on FEBRUARY 1, 2015 | Self-Help

2015-08-03_1119Not limited to addressing the needs of Alzheimer’s patients, this compact manual from Brent, founder of Caregiver Story and Grandpa’s Dream, two nonprofit organizations geared toward providing comprehensive support for caregivers, walks readers through the crucial issues of moving their aging loved ones into an assisted-living facility as well as discussing emotional, medical, legal, and financial issues with them. Checklists are provided for gathering important information. A particularly helpful chapter delves into the frequent dilemma of dealing with the loved one’s resistance to even talking about these issues.  VERDICT An excellent, comprehensive guide to everything both new and seasoned caregivers need to know.


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Dear Gary Barg,

I would like to thank you, the staff members and friends of Caregiver.com & Today’s Caregiver Magazine, for having me as your special guest at the 20thjul_aug2015_Cover_WEB
Anniversary “Fearless Caregiver Conference.”

I am “Jumping Over The Moon” with gratitude in my heart as a recipient of “Today’s Caregiver’s Friendly” AWARD WINNERAward_CLR1bXkWsAAgcHz (2015) in the book category. And recognized as a media authority on caregiving through Today’s Caregiver magazine.

Abundant Blessings,

Sincerely,
Carolyn A Brent, MBA


 

The Caregiver’s Companion & Why Wait?

Everything you need to know to ensure that your elderly loved one is being properly cared for — while taking care of yourself.

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Posted on 08/03/2015 at 12:12am

Dear Gary Barg,

I would like to thank you, the staff members and friends of Caregiver.com & Today’s Caregiver Magazine, for having me as your special guest at the 20th Anniversary “Fearless Caregiver Conference.”

I am “Jumping Over The Moon” with gratitude in my heart as a recipient of “Today’s Caregiver’s Friendly” AWARD WINNER (2015) in the book category. And recognized as a media authority on caregiving through Today’s Caregiver magazine.

Abundant Blessings,

Sincerely,
Carolyn A Brent, MBA


Editorial Reviews
2015-08-01_0331LJSmall“Not limited to addressing the needs of Alzheimer’s patients, this compact manual from Brent, founder of Caregiver Story and Grandpa’s Dream, two nonprofit organizations geared toward providing comprehensive support for caregivers, walks readers through the crucial issues of moving their aging loved ones into an assisted-living facility as well as discussing emotional, medical, legal, and financial issues with them. Checklists are provided for gathering important information. A particularly helpful chapter delves into the frequent dilemma of dealing with the loved one’s resistance to even talking about these issues.VERDICT An excellent, comprehensive guide to everything both new and seasoned caregivers need to know.” —Library Journal

Carolyn A. Brent – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Carolyn Brent, also known as Carolyn A. Brent, is an American author and elder care legislation advocate. She is best known as the author of the best-selling …


 

The Caregiver’s Companion & Why Wait?

Everything you need to know to ensure that your elderly loved one is being properly cared for — while taking care of yourself.

Where to Get your copy

9780615475011-Frontcover copyThe Caregiver_BookCover

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Posted on 08/01/2015 at 5:39am

I am deeply honored….Thank you God, Dad’s (Spirit), and Gary BargEditor-in-Chief, Today’s Caregiver Magazine & Caregiver.com CEO Caregiver Media Group.– Carolyn A. Brent

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Editorial Reviews
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“Not limited to addressing the needs of Alzheimer’s patients, this compact manual from Brent, founder of Caregiver Story and Grandpa’s Dream, two nonprofit organizations geared toward providing comprehensive support for caregivers, walks readers through the crucial issues of moving their aging loved ones into an assisted-living facility as well as discussing emotional, medical, legal, and financial issues with them. Checklists are provided for gathering important information. A particularly helpful chapter delves into the frequent dilemma of dealing with the loved one’s resistance to even talking about these issues.VERDICT An excellent, comprehensive guide to everything both new and seasoned caregivers need to know.”

 

Media Room | Press Release


 

The Caregiver’s Companion & Why Wait?

Everything you need to know to ensure that your elderly loved one is being properly cared for — while taking care of yourself.

Where to Get your copy

9780615475011-Frontcover copyThe Caregiver_BookCover

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Posted on 07/15/2015 at 8:14am

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On February 19, 2013, I testified before the Committee on Aging and Long-Term in Sacramento, California, about the nefarious practice of vexatious

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litigation as it relates to family caregivers. The road I traveled to that day had been a long one. In fact, my trip had begun six years before, in 2007. Let me share some of that journey with you to give you a deeper appreciation for my fight and why I’ve written this book. “The Caregiver’s Companion”  That year, I contacted the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) in Oakland, California. In full detail, I shared with officials there what happened to my father and me. The result: The VA took no action.

The next year, in 2008, I contacted the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), located in the same building as the VA, and shared my story with two FBI agents. Weeks later, after the completion of their internal investigation, an agent called me and said, “Your complaint is not within the scope of our jurisdiction. I suggest you take this matter to a family law court.” Family law court? That’s not an option! I thought. “What good will it serve my dad and me when our judicial system is broken? At that very moment I realized I needed to do something far more significant to help change our current laws, with the aim of protecting my father, the “veteran,” and people like me, the “caregiver.”

In 2009, I began my pursuit of justice with the sole purpose of changing the laws in California at the federal and state levels regarding the nefarious practice of vexatious litigation against a caregiver.

1458608_10201384772079491_1423820030_nIn 2010, I knocked on the door of my congressman’s office during the busiest time of the year—he was campaigning for a second term—and I didn’t get a meeting. I kept trying to get on his calendar though, even appearing at all of his local events with hopes of bending his ear, but I still had no luck. Finally, a year after the start of my pursuit, I obtained an appointment!

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On March 18, 2011, at exactly 3:30 pm, I was given a whopping “ten minutes” to share my entire story with my congressman. After providing an overview of what happened in 2007, I pointed out a “loophole” within the federal and state agencies., I explained that I had discovered the state does not recognize a veteran’s end-of-life choices that have been filed legally at the federal level by the veteran. Therefore, if a veteran has not filed the same documents at the state level, the veteran’s wishes are not legally valid or recognized in the eyes of the state. Ultimately, this opens up the doors to the state for disgruntled family members who do not agree with the veteran’s choices, I told the congressman. This “loophole,” I continued, provides an opportunity for disgruntled family members to practice the act of nefarious vexatious litigation against the caregiver who was chosen by the veteran—exactly what happened to my father and me. I told my congressman, “When my father was cognitive and healthy, he filed all of the VA required legal documents appointing me as his guardian in the event of his disability.” Then I paused for a moment and asked the million-dollar question. “Of what benefit is it for the veteran to file legal documents at the federal level, if the federal government is not going to protect the veteran’s end-of-life choices on the backend of caregiving, when family members disagree with the choices made by the veteran at the state level and use the act of vexatious litigation against the caregiver? Surely, if my father and I had known about this ‘loophole’ we would have filed the same documents with the state of California as well, to safeguard his wishes.”

My congressman then asked, “What results are you looking for?” I replied,
“Justice for my father’s end-of-life choices, and protection for disabled veterans and their caregivers who have been acting in ‘good faith.’ Most importantly, closing the ‘loophole’between state……Read more details: Get Your Copy


I made a promise to my father’s spirit that I will visit his burial site with the news that the law has been changed to protect the caregiver and the person he or she is caring for. Untold numbers of people would benefit from a revised law. I know this firsthand. Since 2009 I have been conducting extensive research on this topic and others related to family caregiving, including interviewing more than fifteen hundred caregivers across the globe.

This research has culminated in this book, designed to help you navigate the trickywaters of caregiving. With this guide to help you step-by-step along the way, you will be equipped to become a confident caregiver for your loved one, you will learn how to take proper care of yourself, and you will master the necessary skills to communicate and work effectively with your extended family during this difficult time in your aging loved one’s life.

This guide will have you pondering big, detailed questions, but the biggest takeaway involves the most basic of ideas: love is the greatest thing you can give to your ailing loved one. Come on this journey in The Caregiver’s Companion and find out how to give that and more. Visit: CareGiverStory.com

 

The Journey


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Editorial Reviews
Review — Library Journal
“Not limited to addressing the needs of Alzheimer’s patients, this compact manual from Brent, founder of Caregiver Story and Grandpa’s Dream, two nonprofit organizations geared toward providing comprehensive support for caregivers, walks readers through the crucial issues of moving their aging loved ones into an assisted-living facility as well as discussing emotional, medical, legal, and financial issues with them. Checklists are provided  for gathering important information. A particularly helpful chapter delves into the frequent dilemma of dealing with the loved one’s resistance to even talking about these issues.VERDICT An excellent, comprehensive guide to everything both new and seasoned caregivers need to know.”

“A timely, thought provoking page-turner that should be considered a desk reference for caregivers and those who would be caregivers of all ages.”
-Rawle Andrews, Jr., Esq., Regional Vice President, AARP

“A personal, compelling account. It is thorough, accurate, and highly credible. Brent’s straightforward advice can serve as an excellent help to anyone in the situation of working with siblings on parent care. I highly recommend it!”
–Carolyn L. Rosenblatt, R.N., attorney, author of The Boomer’s Guide to Aging Parents

“As a pastor and counselor, I endorse Brent’s book as an excellent resource. I recommend it for inclusion in all church libraries, homes of family caregivers, and the offices of pastors who work with people who care for aging parents.”
-Rev. Dr. Mary Newbern-Williams, Pastor, author of With Scares on My Soul. 

“It takes real courage to reveal your darkest hour and deepest vulnerability to benefit others. Brent is truly inspirational. Her book offers us the universal wisdom of her life lessons. She has set a new, elevated standard for turning adversity to love and redemption.”
-Mikol Davis, Ph.D., geriatric psychologist, CEO of AgingParents.com

“As a pastor, physician, veteran, and one who was also a caregiver and suffered loss, I know Carolyn Brent has stripped the cover off of one of life’s most painful processes. Why Wait? challenges us to take an honest look at our deepest fears and rejoice in our hope of true reconciliation.”
-Charles Woodridge, M.D.


 

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The Caregiver’s Companion & Why Wait?

Everything you need to know to ensure that your elderly loved one is being properly cared for — while taking care of yourself.

Where to Get your copy

9780615475011-Frontcover copyThe Caregiver_BookCover


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